Today, most of the daters want immediate results after a date. They want to meet their dream date immediately. They want to all in love immediately. They want to like each other immediately. There is hurry in dating. There is a demand that we must get good date immediately. This is like interviewing candidates for a position in your organization. You wish to get the best candidate as the first candidate and get frustrated if you do not get one after interviewing many. That frustration either makes you drop the idea of searching or you try to fit at least one candidate in the slot. But that will fail with disastrous results.
Are you doing something similar in dating? Do you not accept disappointments easily? Do you want your candy immediately like a child? That can lead to complications. You have to define your requirements and if you find that your date and you do not match, you have to drop him/her. You do not have to create excuses and fit him/her with you. That may lead to long-term pain.
Let us be sure. You are looking for a life partner. You have only one life and you must try and get the best partner you can to have happiness and satisfaction. Give dating enough time. Date few people before you decide about one. Make sure that your head is ruling you and not heart. Do not ask for immediate results. That can be painful over time. |
