Hot Dating Tip #3: Be interesting. So you're an accountant. That doesn't mean you have to be dull. Get some hobbies. Take up paragliding. Join the rowing club. Study paganism. Widen your interests so you can talk intelligently about a range of subjects. Women love to talk and they love to be talked to - as long as you don't send them to sleep. You don't need to be a world class expert on a subject in order to talk about it intelligently - in fact, it's better if you're not - you're less likely to be boring. Don't lecture: talk in a way that suggests you have thought about a subject and still have unanswered questions. Ask her opinion at every opportunity - she will feel valued and respected. Ask about her interests, too. Go to places where there are women who share your interests. Evening classes, weekend events, adult education courses are all popular places for women who want to better themselves. No reason why you shouldn't help them with their homework. If you want to have the self-confidence to approach any woman you choose and the self-esteem to brush off the occasional rejection without a second thought. |
